Friday, August 25, 2023

Memories of things future

(This originally appeared in a 1979 "Contacts" article I used to write for Azalea City News & Review
  
 We look at the present through a rear view mirror, looking at where we have just been instead of looking at where we are going, McLuhan’s Medium is the Message tells us. He, like the Tao pundits, can find cosmic messages betrayed in their mundane hiding places, but you can find them through a joy ride on our highways. 

Ride east from Mobile through the time warp of the old tunnel out over the Bayway to the Malbis exit and Highway 90. History is enmeshed here at this corner of the Malbis plantation and the restaurant. Riding through late 19th century Loxley toward Spanish Pensacola, your perception of time changes. A few years ago the Causeway was the only way to get to this corner of the old "Mobile Highway" now it is the Bayway. 

The Bayway, capped off by the Wallace tunnel, is symbolic of the New Engineering that has been overtaking our society. It marks its official arrival in Mobile, although it probably began with Mobile Greyhound Park and can be traced most recently to the new Hilton. Mobile is "growing up". New Money, with its innovation and daring is here. The old ways have outlived some of their usefulness, but life on the new mental interstates can be so fast we only catch a glimmer of them from our mirrors as they go by. 

The Bayway is sleek, an extension of the interstate mentality of getting from here to there, the fast road to some place else. Highways are concrete artifacts of our sentiments, our priorities, and history. The Bayway is not only the major artery now, it has imposed its reality on the Causeway by killing it. Survivor of so many natural catastrophes, it has merely been circumvented. The road goes on. 

The interstate used to be a mindless 70 mph jaunt. The only thing that’s changed is that it is now a nerve-racking 65 mph as we worry about gas shortages and state troopers. Back on these desolate miles between Malbis and Spanish Fort - the trees and woods, the straight-ahead two-lane blacktop, the timeless little cities - we get a reprieve from this imposition. We can enjoy the road for what it is. 

But at the end of the road where it hooks back onto the main artery there are the cosmic and real signs announcing the multi-million-dollar shopping complex. The woods give way to bulldozers as developers create the need for a mall out here in the wilderness that borders the pioneer Lake Forest complex. The stretch of road is a microcosm of the passage of time, the old forced to give way to the new. 

We’re on the road to Catch Up and it seems natural that we make our way - be it ethereal or tangible - as straight ahead, as clearly delineated, as powerful and as efficiently as possible. But let’s not forget the lesson of the Causeway, or this little loop of highway here at Malbis, or the intersection at Grand Bay or the beauty that once was a charming Fairhope. Let’s go down these highways with our face full forward, knowing where we have been and where we’re going. The mindset of future potential must not overshadow the debt we owe to the past or we will be doomed, as McLuhan says, to attach ourselves to the objects, to only the flavor of the most recent past as we march backwards into the future.


Monday, April 10, 2023

Another Amazing Week (Noel)

Last week was another series of amazing (good) things about the internet. Here is a series of emails I received out of the blue:

Good morning, I am looking for my biological father. I believe you are closely related to him. Would you please contact me. XXXXXX

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One more piece of information for you as I know you are taking a risk to reach out. I was adopted. My biological mother did not tell him that she was pregnant. They were both students at University of Arizona in Tucson. He was in the military. She described him as very intelligent, funny, serious and quiet. He loved sports and reading. He was 22, 5’6” and 150 pounds. Puerto Rican.

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I don't have access to your dna profile. Have you looked at my family trees? I have two (screwup) Domingo Soto and Domingo Soto-Mendez. What year was it when he was 22? Was he in the military (branch?) while he was in college? I am not aware of any of my family members having lived in Arizona.

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I will try to forward my DNA, not sure how to do that but will try. He was 22 in 1969. 5’6”, 150 lbs, blue eyes, dark brown hair. He was in the Air Force at Davis Monthan Air Force base in Tucson,AZ My closest match is Porfiria XXXXXX (managed by XXXXXX), however I don’t think she’s active on Ancestry

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That sounds like my cousin Noel Rios Acevedo. Died in Viet Nam.

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Oh my goodness, thank you!!!! I have a close dna match with XXXXXX on Ancestry. I noticed the name Narda in the pictures. Is that Noel’s sister? Thank you so much for sharing this. I really appreciate you.

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Not Nardi, Narda

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Good morning Domingo, it looks like (from the family tree) that I have a brother or a sister? Did Noel have a child before he went to Vietnam?

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Narda, Porfiria, Peter (Pedro), and Sixto were raised together with (I think first Cousins) Noel and Iraida. Judging from their last names they were probably Chela's (Angelina) sibling's kids and went to live with Sixto and Chela while still in PR. Noel was MIA for a pretty long time. I will try to find some of the things I've written about it. I had a personal website and through it two of Noels kids showed up. I will try to find that out for you. Narda XXXXXX lives in Tampa. Porfiria just died.

Wall of Faces

Panel

My Cousin Noel

Tio Sixto was, I think, the oldest male of the 13 siblings.

Our grandparents came from Utuado, Puerto Rico

Mendez Family Album

Mendez Famil 2

Mendez Family3

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APRIL 10

btw april 3 was his birthday

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XXXXXX

It’s been wonderful to look at all these photographs. What a beautiful family!!

I don’t have Facebook so I can’t access that information. My husband is on FB, his name is XXXXXX I’m so curious about what he was like, his personality.

Thank you Domingo! ------------

We have a family fb mario mendez feel free to join. Also, make sure you read the comments in the wall site, will make you proud. I'm on fb and blogger.

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XXXXXX

Very proud, thank you so much